Yesterday my husband and I spent the entire day packing and moving out of our condo. It was exhausting! I went the entire day phone and web - free! It was actually nice to not worry about responding to an email or picking up a call even if I was packing and climbing up and downstairs 75+ times! I will say this morning was a little overwhelming trying to get back to calls and emails I missed yesterday but I think there comes a time when we all need a little "break" from being readily available to respond to an inquiry whether by phone, text, or email. I felt grounded yesterday and I think it's healthy to have that balance in time to yourself or enjoying face to face conversation as opposed to communicating via tech-world.
We'll be away from our computers and phones again this weekend from Saturday to Sunday and I'm going to pay close attention to the # of calls, texts, emails I miss throughout that time period. I'm curious to see how urgent (if any) the messages may be and/or if there are less calls, texts, emails because I'm not sending any out myself.
Our society relies on the use of these tools so much that I think we've almost implemented this standard that people should reply instantly and I think sometimes we forget, not everyone is glued to their phone or computer. I can sense frustration sometimes when I don't get back to friends right away about something or even to my mom when she sends an email to me at work. Years ago I don't think people anticipated such quick replies but it's became the way of the world..... I'll be interested to see what phone, text, email etiquette will be even 5 years from now!
I'm one of those folks who doesn't answer my cell phone, which I know irks some people. I carry it. I want it to use as needed (and especially in case of an emergency). I answer texts more quickly than calls. To me, the device offers control -- only people seem to forget about that. If I am potentially available, I can see who is calling first and decide whether or not to pick up. If you're calling socially and I only have 2 min, I won't pick up. Seems pointless to do so. Besides, you can leave a message. Or text and I'll see the message more quickly.
ReplyDeleteAnd email. Oh, I used to jump on it but these days I find that too overwhelming so I don't. I could spend all day on email if I did that.
You should see my message inbox on my phone right now.......19!!!! I never listen to messages. I agree text is probably the easiest and fastest way to get me. The only time I have social conversations by telephone is when I'm en route from work to home in the afternoons and even then I usually try to enjoy Sirius for that 45 min commute!
DeleteDo you think there is a relationship between caffeine (preferably coffee) and the need to text, email, go online and respond to messages?
ReplyDeleteJust kiddin'....I am all about down time, but also I like the instant interaction our tech provides. Most of the time, I delete emails, messages, etc. Like Vanessa said, its about control (and moderation).
I like operating in a fast paced mode because I am good at multi-tasking, but when its time to unplug, I enjoy being relaxed, listen to music, hang out with my wife, etc.
Balance, that's what it's all about...Balance.